The Power of Positive Relationships

Paul’s Recipe for Building Strong Connections and Giving Back

Addiction recovery journeys are often filled with twists and turns, moments of despair and hope, and ultimately, triumph over adversity. Paul’s story is no different. After battling addiction and experiencing the consequences of his choices, Paul found himself at LESC Su Casa Residential Treatment Program for a second time. Through his determination and the support of his peers and the program, Paul not only achieved sobriety but also rediscovered a passion that led him to become the head of food services at Su Casa. “Addiction had me trapped in a cycle of despair, but I found the strength to break free and discover a life I never thought possible,” Paul exclaimed. “I was filled with self-doubt, but overcoming my addiction taught me that I am capable of so much more than I ever imagined.”

Finding Recovery at LESC Su Casa

Paul explained that his first encounter with LESC Su Casa was in 2005 when he was sent there by the court. At that time, he didn’t fully embrace the recovery process and relapsed. In 2018, Paul made the courageous decision to ask for help and he knew where to continue his recovery journey. He returned to Su Casa, driven by a realization that he couldn’t continue living in the cycle of addiction. But this time, he came on his own accord – seeking a way out of the destructive path he had been on.

Building Friendships and Confidence

Reflecting on his return, Paul expressed his initial anger with himself for the choices he had made, but he soon discovered the transformative power of the program and the value of the friendships he formed during his stay. “Recovery is a journey of self-discovery,” Paul shared. “It’s about uncovering who you truly are beneath the layers of addiction and pain. It’s not an easy path, but it’s worth every step. I’ve learned that believing in yourself is key. When you start to believe in your own worth and potential, amazing things happen.” 

Paul spent two years at Su Casa, where he forged meaningful friendships with his peers who were also on their own journey to recovery. These relationships played a crucial role in his healing journey, teaching him how to navigate life without turning to illicit substances. Paul recounted his amazement at seeing people living ‘normal lives’ without relying on drugs or alcohol. These newfound friendships allowed him to learn from others, gain confidence, and regain his sense of self-worth. “Support is crucial,” Paul emphasized. These friendships became an essential part of his journey, providing him with a network of understanding and compassionate people. His friends in recovery would meet regularly, enjoying shared activities, attending meetings, and celebrating milestones. Laughter and reminiscing about their time in recovery became an integral part of their bond, reminding Paul of the joy and fulfillment he had found. “Surrounding yourself with people who understand and uplift you can make all the difference. I am grateful for the friendships I’ve formed in recovery. They’ve become my support system, my cheerleaders, and my inspiration.”

Recovery and Personal Growth

Paul explained that his recovery journey wasn’t limited to overcoming addiction. It was a transformative process that helped him identify underlying issues within himself. As part of Su Casa’s phased program, Paul participated in a class called “Seeking Safety,” which provided insight into the psychology of addiction and how our thoughts and self-perceptions can hinder progress. Through this class, Paul discovered that his addiction was not about the drugs, but it stemmed from personal issues he had carried throughout his life.

From Head Chef to Leading Food Operations at LESC Su Casa

Paul already had established training and professional experience as a chef, prior to recovery, but he had considered leaving that profession behind. As Paul began searching for employment opportunities, he was encouraged by his peers to pursue a head chef position at a well-known Manhattan restaurant. This new challenge brought with it an unexpected wave of anxiety. Fortunately, Paul found encouragement in the supportive environment and the tools provided by Su Casa. With the help of the Su Casa team and encouragement from his peers, Paul confronted his anxiety, applied for the position, faced the trial cooking challenge, and he landed the job. 

Today, Paul has come full circle – transitioning from head chef to a leadership role in the food operations at the LESC Su Casa Residential Treatment Program center. In his current position, Paul goes beyond simply ensuring that the center’s residents receive nutritious meals – he serves as an inspiration to others on their own recovery journeys. Through his dedication and expertise, Paul continues to make a meaningful impact on the lives of those he serves – demonstrating that recovery can lead to fulfilling careers and healthy relationships.

Paul’s Famous Pepper Steak

Ingredients:

1 lb. round steak

1 Tbsp. paprika

2 Tbsp. butter or cooking oil

2 cloves garlic, minced

1-1/2 cups beef broth

1 cup onions, sliced long way

2 peppers, sliced julienne

2 Tbsp. corn starch

¼ cup water

¼ cup soy sauce

¼ cup tomato sauce

Salt and pepper to taste

Directions:

Cut steak into ¼” wide strips. Sprinkle with paprika and let stand. Brown meat in butter or oil and add garlic and beef broth; simmer for 1 hour. Stir in onions and pepper. Blend in cornstarch, water, soy sauce, and tomato sauce. Stir into meat mixture and cook 2 minutes until clear and thickened. Serve over rice.

Paul emphasized that meals at LESC Su Casa are an important time to connect over good food and conversation. His Pepper Steak is a Su Casa favorite. Paul makes it a point to invite residents into his kitchen for hands-on help and encouragement.

Paul Reflects on Giving Back

Reflecting on his past, Paul recognizes the mistakes he made while in the grip of addiction. Today he lives a life beyond his wildest dreams, and he firmly believes in power of positive self-talk and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive people in his life. Paul believes that by persistently pursuing positive change, one can achieve remarkable results. His encouragement to others is to believe in themselves, take things one step at a time, and stay committed to doing the right thing, as it will eventually lead to positive outcomes. “Su Casa not only saved my life, but also showed me the power of resilience and the importance of helping others on their own recovery journeys.”